The goal is to bring my internal feelings of love and commitment into external realities, specifically import relationships, in order to prepare my life for transition from singleness to togetherness, from "I" to "We," to ready myself for the coming of a queen, to ready my private life for the new home to be built, its foundations of servanthood, soul & vision, confidence & commitment.
Ephesians 5:25-28
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A better relationship w/ sister... equals
Stronger foundations w/ God
Serving the Church more?
Discipleship
Academics well learned & applie
What about internally my love? What kind of person do you want to be?
How can I help you go there?
To optimize your beauty?
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Need to be "felt" -> feeling ignored
Need for movement vs. compassion
Don't "Sit in it" (push me with questions)
Don't
Discredit
Once I feel heard, there is
conversation.
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1) Growth in honest & clear communication
what helps you feel heard?
private, doors closed
brainstorm & feedback
consistency + quality + connection
2) Feel more safe & comfortable & secure
with one another
appreciated
affirmation
be nice
:) Flattery
Trustworthiness -> Judged -> Dependable/reliable -> "gossip"
3) Don't let stress and busyness throw us off
when the other doesn't feel heard, appreciated, valued, loss of priority {sic} & conflicts
Speak up when not feeling valued
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